Here is an exercise for you to do:
Journal, meditate or contemplate on your prior relationships. This will help you in beginning to examine your patterns in relationships with a loving partner. There are four intentions in doing this:
1. The first involves gaining self-awareness and understanding of your patterns of behavior in loving relationships.
2. Then try to determine how your relationship patterns have more to do with you, than the other person.
3. Identify trends in the types of personalities you attract and bring into your life. We often attract people who become our best spiritual teachers, reflecting to us our core beliefs, tendencies and patterns of reality.
4. Relate your personal loving experiences to your behavior in relationship with the Divine.
Then begin to create new energy with the following visualization:
1. Visualize the details of the physical, spiritual, and emotional attributes of your ideal partner.
2. Include what you have experienced, what you desire and what you are willing to offer a loving partner.
3. Resolve how the relationship will create a positive impact on your spiritual unfolding and path.