If you don’t, then what is missing?
List up 1-10 things that you want to be in your life and concentrate on them. The more you spend time with things you love, the better life you would have. If you work for years to reach your dream life, then you don’t live it. Everyday you should have this experience with you. Every hour you should remind your self is that what you are here for? Should this be a part of my dream? You have limited time to live on this planet, what makes you think that some one else is deserved more of your attention than yourself. Every experience is made for you. As long as you enjoy or hate it. If you let go and concentrate on yourself and your desires, then experiences will change. You will experience your dream-life.